Becoming Love: When People Let You Down

Thanks for awesome response to our new series, Becoming Love. Last week, we looked at relationships myths. If you missed it, listen here. This week, we are looking at a significant topic: when people let you down. How do you respond when people let you down? Depending on the situation, I have: Pretended it didn’t …

The Thread God is Weaving in Your Life

When I was a child I began gardening.  This was pre-Home Depot days, all we had were small local nurseries and so my Mom, who also loved to garden, took me.  I picked out plants to grow and friends of my parents gave me plants for my collection.  I displayed everything on an old ladder …

Big Surprise!

So, I am a planner. In fact, every day when I meditate I notice the thoughts that most often interrupt my solitude are plans I am making. My practice is to bow to them (instead of fighting or resisting them) and say, “planning”. It’s an acknowledgement. During meditation others may struggle with “feelings”, “pain” or …

Why I Love New Year’s Resolutions!

I love the New Year. In fact, I love it so much that I celebrate a fresh start four times a year by rebooting my life every three months. I came across this idea in the book, The Twelve Week Year by Brian Moran. Last year I tried it out for 3 months – I …

#9 Believe You Can Grow – 9 Actions to Grow Worship and Professions of Faith

I recently visited a church where I had an opportunity to share how the Cal-Pac Conference of the UMC is really doing in growth. After sharing, the woman looked at me and said, “that cannot be right, I heard (unnamed person) say the no one new comes to church and that the UMC would be …

#8 Social Media – 9 Actions to Grow Worship Attendance and Professions of Faith

Visiting a church for the first time can be a challenge.  Sadly, sometimes the challenge is just locating correct information about the church.  Case in point: One Saturday night  I searched for the Facebook page of a local UMC only to find that the posts were 6 months old & nowhere could I find the …

#07 – 9 Actions to Grow Worship Attendance and Professions of Faith

A friend who is a retired UMC clergy person shared with me how hard it was for him and his wife to find a new church home.  They had moved into a new community and visited the five UM churches driving distance from their house.  At each one they filled out the registration pad leaving …